Unplugged Weddings: The Key to Genuine Moments
(A Guest's Guide to Capturing the Moment)
In this blog post, we'll explore the concept of unplugged weddings and offer some tips on how to be a friendly and engaged guest.
Dear guests, I hope you find in this blog the vision and contribution of a photographer who has had the honour of photographing dozens of weddings in different countries and who wishes the best for the couples who hire him and the guests of each wedding, because for me each guest is super important, without them the story and memory of the wedding would not be possible.
A blog that inspires and helps to solve something common nowadays, trying to help to have the best wedding experience for both the couple and all the guests, and helps the couples that have hired me to get the best final result.
In this digital age, our mobile phones have become an integral part of our lives, helping us connect with loved ones, document our experiences, and stay connected to the world. However, we would like to gently remind everyone of the importance of being present in the moment during the most significant parts of the wedding.
WHAT IS AN UNPLUGGED WEDDING?
An unplugged wedding basically means that everyone is present and focused in the moment with the couple getting married during the ceremony by turning off their phones and cameras and waiting to take pictures once the whole ceremony and the hugs afterward are over. Yep - that means no photos, no Insta stories, no TikToks, no phones turned on.
Nowadays it seems almost normal to use the phone to capture anything and it is easy to get carried away by the emotion of the moment. Wanting to have your photo or video so you can share it quickly, but people don't stop to think that they are not making a direct connection and feeling the moment. A lot of people don't think about this aspect during the most important moments of a wedding (during the whole ceremony, reception or moments like the first dance with the groom, the first dance with the father or the cutting of the cake) until they see the photos and regret it because there are stupid iPads and phones and cameras cluttering up and distracting the viewer from the real moment that is happening, the wedding!
Not only does it ruin the photos and video, but it can also ruin the experience for the rest of the guests.
REAL EMOTIONS AND MEMORIES AT WEDDINGS
An unplugged wedding is synonymous with emotions and real memories of a wedding.
LET’S MAKE IT A NORMALITY.
If you've attended a wedding in recent years, you've probably noticed a growing trend: unplugged weddings. Hopefully, this trend will soon become a norm of respect and affection for the couple getting married and their memories. Please put aside your electronic devices, smartphones, and cameras, allowing the photographer and videographer to capture the magic of the day. Connect in a real way and enjoy every moment of the wedding.
A SMALL DETAIL THAT MAKES THE DIFFERENCE FOR A PERFECT WEDDING
Have you ever wondered why it is frowned upon to film or take pictures during a theatre performance, a movie, or a formal event? It is simply disrespectful. You can disturb other people and draw attention to yourself. Of course, in case you are in the frame of the camera you will be immortalized for later ruining both the wedding photos and the wedding video. Here is an insight:
Does it make sense to draw attention to yourself by making a video that will simply be forgotten? do you want the groom to have to lean around people's iPhones in the aisle to get the first glimpse of his bride? or the couple's friends or family to have to look through your camera up high or to get a glimpse of the bride at the entrance to the ceremony?
Please turn off your phones and be present in the moment with the bride and groom during the most incredible moments of the wedding. There's a reason the couple is paying a photographer and videographer thousands of Euros to capture these precious memories for everyone, and we live in a digital age where everyone can access all the photos I take! I promise to send sneaks of the ceremony to the couple to share with you all right after the wedding day, and you can share it too!
Of course, feel free to take photos or videos during any other scene of the wedding other than the bride and groom entering the ceremony, the ceremony, or during the first dance with the father or groom.
Also feel free to ask me to take group photos with your cell phone during any time that I am not in full operation, such as during the cocktail hour as it is a more relaxed time and when group photos are usually taken. Guests often ask me to do this and I'm really happy to do it!
You are a very important part of the wedding, so please, forget your phone and create unforgettable memories!
TIPS FOR EMBRACING AN UNPLUGGED WEDDING AS A GUEST
Engage with Others: Without the distraction of screens, take the opportunity to connect with fellow guests.
Enjoy conversations, share stories, and make lasting memories.
Be Present: Focus on the ceremony and the couple's vows. You'll have a chance to view the professional photos later, so savor the moment as it unfolds.
Encourage others: If you notice someone struggling to resist the urge to use their phone, gently remind them of the importance of being present.
Trust the Professionals: Remember that the couple has hired a skilled photographer to capture the essence of the day. Trust in their expertise, and rest assured that you'll have beautiful photos to enjoy afterward.
CONCLUSION
Unplugged weddings offer a unique opportunity to be fully present at one of the most important moments in a couple's life. By respecting this and embracing the concept you can play an important role in creating an endearing and unforgettable experience for them. So put away your devices, immerse yourself in the celebration and help create beautiful memories that will last a lifetime. By doing so, you not only enhance the overall atmosphere but also help us in our mission to capture the magic of the wedding day without any distractions.
Thank you for understanding my perspective and for helping me create the most beautiful memories for you. I am committed to making the wedding day as special as possible, and your cooperation is greatly appreciated.
I can't wait to create timeless memories together. If you have any questions or concerns, please do not hesitate to contact me on Instagram.